Sindoor or Sindooram is a traditional vermilion red or orange-red colored cosmetic powder from Indian Subcontinent, usually worn by married women along the part of their hair. In Hindu communities the use of sindooram indicates a woman is married and ceasing to wear it usually implies widowhood. Women should not wear the sindooram kept in pooja during period time.
Sindooram is traditionally apply at the beginning or completely along the parting-line of a woman’s hair or as a dot on the forehead. Sindoor is the mark of a married woman in Hinduism. Single women wear the bindi in different colors but do not apply sindoor in their parting of the hairline. Widows do not wear sindoor, signifying that their husband is no longer alive.
The sindoor is first applied to the woman by her husband on the day of her wedding; this is called the Sindoor Daanam ceremony. After this, she applies it herself every day.
The wiping off of the paste is very significant for a widow. There are many rituals associate with this practice. The most common is when a mother-in-law or older sister-in-law wipes off the sindooram when a woman becomes a widow. The widow will break her bangles and remove her bottu as well, and many will also remove their nose ring and toe rings. The parting of hair is symbolic of a river of red blood full of life. When the sindoor is remove then the river becomes barren, dry and empty. This custom is prevalent in rural areas and is followe by all castes and social ranks.
The red sindooram is significant for the married woman as she is full of colour. When she becomes a widow she adopts plain white dress and removes all colour from her face including the bright red sindoor.
Methods and styles of applying the paste vary from personal choice to regional customs. Many new brides will fill the whole hair line with sindooram, while other married women may just apply a red spot at the end of the hair line and forehead. Recently, a triangle shape on the forehead pointing towards the nose, with a diamond bindi for fashion, is being worn by younger women.